Brad Pitt’s Not The Only One
Top Ten Reasons Why Couples Divorce
A recent interview with Brad Pitt reflects the main issues on why happy couples can usually end up with an annulment. The number of divorced couples continues to rise especially in countries where annulment is legal. Pitt, having the best life anyone can have, shared his secrets in finding his way to his true love and happiness. And that includes getting “rid” of his old life and starting over again with someone new.
"I started to get sick of myself sitting on a couch, holding a joint, hiding out. It started feeling pathetic.” said Pitt on an interview with a magazine. “I think that my marriage [to actress Jennifer Aniston] had something to do with it,” He added. “Trying to pretend the marriage was something that it wasn’t."
Those words coming out straight from Brad’s mouth made it controversial and indeed made people think of other reasons why couples turned their backs to their married life. After all, Divorce is something that happens to most couples. Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston aren’t only the perfect couple who put an end to their married life.
Top Ten Reasons Why Happily Married Couples Opted To Go Solo
1. Abuse
Emotional, physical, and sexual abuses are among the reasons why most marriage ends. However, it doesn’t mean that only men can do harm and women are the victims. In some cases, it can happen the other way around. Whatever the reason may be, abuse can not only lead to divorce but the abusers can also be end up in jail.
2. Infidelity
Infidelity is the most common cause of divorce all over the world. In fact, surveys have shown that some married men or women even commit adultery because of a failed marriage. Some reasons of infidelity include sexual boredom, resentment or anger, and many more. Regardless if it is an affair or just a one night stand, most cases of unfaithfulness end up in divorce.
3. Financial Issues
At times, money can be the cause of arguments that lead to divorce. There are different types of financial issues that a married couple can encounter. For instance, the wife may be earning more than her husband causing him to hurt his ego. It can also be a fight over properties or lack of capabilities to meet the family’s financial needs.
4. Communication Problems
Even if the couple is living inside the same house, that doesn’t mean that they are happy and have a good communication. Neglect is also an issue that commonly leads to marital separation. When the issues aren’t addressed properly, misunderstanding can happen.
5. Incompatibility
Love can’t conquer the world alone. Compatibility is also needed. However, the main issue is that people do not see those differences until they get married. Therefore, most couples end up realizing that they’re not meant for each other.
6. Child Rearing
Couples may have different ways of raising their children. And most of the time, differences in disciplining their child can be a problem for married couples. This may eventually lead to divorce especially if there are also other causes.
7. Sexual Differences
Married couple can also have sexual problems like inability to bear a child, inability to provide sexual fulfillment and many more. To some couples, sexual issues are essential for marriage to work and are important enough to give up everything they have.
8. Drug Addiction
A happy family can be ruined by drug addiction and other vices like alcohol and any types of gambling. Drug addiction is also the leading cause of physical abuse worldwide.
9. Different Priorities
Business can also damage marital relationships. When either the man or the woman is too busy to work, the other might feel that he or she is neglected. Aside from work, there are also other issues that are related with this problem such as going out with friends, shopping, and many more.
10. Boredom
Boredom can also be a cause of marital separation. Just like Brad Pitt, other men and women also experience boredom or can feel something that they don’t really like. After months and years of being together, couples may grow distant, disinterested, and can be bored with each other. This may lead to a realization that they’re not just meant to be together.