It came as a shock when the couple announced the end of their 7-year marriage. Reasons on the failed marriage sprung out ranging from infidelity, financial issues, jealousy, career, irreconcilable differences, controlling issues and quality time with each other and their twins, Max and Emme. What or who is to be blamed for this failed marriage? Well, third time is not a charm for the Latina from the Bronx superstar.

According to Huffington post Celebrity, insiders stated that there have already been signs of this marriage headed to a divorce for quite some time. New details are even emerging indicating that the split is not as harmonious as we would like to believe.

Even Ben Affleck, J.Lo's former flame, offered help to save Jennifer's marriage. According to US Weekly, it was the singer-actress-dancer's mother Guadalupe Lopez who asked for Ben Affleck's advice. Being around her mother recently gave way for her close friends to suspect that there is something wrong. A friend of the American Idol judge said that "Whenever she breaks up with a man, she surrounds herself with family. After her split from her fiancé, Ben Affleck, Jennifer flew her mom in to be by her side."

J.Lo's career is one the rise once again after taking a long break from getting married and giving birth to her lovely twins. Is her success as a singer and an American Idol judge the blame for her marriage to fall apart? She has never been busier taping "Idol" and releasing her new album, "Love?". Additionally, the couple is working on a new reality show, "¡Q'Viva! The Chosen", in which they will search all over the world to find an extraordinary talent. Marc has spent the summer filming the TNT drama, "Hawthorne," while also maintaining his live performance schedule. An insider stated that knowing Jennifer and Marc, neither of them is capable of putting their career on hold whenever a great or big paying opportunity comes along. Just days after announcing the split, J.Lo's people confirmed that she will be traveling to Ukraine for a $1 million payday to perform a private show for a wealthy businessman.

Eventually, work is considered to be the blame for this divorce.