Is your cellphone changing, shaping your personality?
Worrying poor mobile phone etiquette
More Aussies are forgetting their manners and using their mobile phones inappropriately, according to new Telstra State of the Nation Research.
Telstra Consumer Executive Director, Ms Rebekah O’Flaherty, said the research showed that while traditional gripes such as talking loudly on public transport or using a mobile while driving still topped the list, smartphones were encouraging a new wave of behaviour.
“More than one third of the mobiles we sell are smartphones and Facebook use on mobiles has tripled in the past year, so it’s not surprising some of us aren’t sure if it’s acceptable to check-in friends on Facebook during lunch or show-off their latest apps over the dinner table.
“It’s clear modern technology with instant, one-click access to social networking and email had transformed the way Australians live, which is why we need a new set of etiquette rules to help turn around mobile misbehaviour,” she said.
To get mobile etiquette onto the conversation agenda and educate Australians on how to avoid Phone-Pas (poor mobile phone etiquette), Telstra has joined forces with etiquette expert Anna Musson.
“When it comes to navigating the complex world of mobile etiquette, I recommend a couple of simple tips. Firstly, save it for later – there are some discussions that should not take place over a mobile phone or in public. Also, be ‘socially sensitive’ – a picture, status update or check-in can say a thousand words, so always think before you post,” Anna said.
Testra’s Most Common Phone-Pas Personalities
1. Mover and Shaker
You’re always on the go and your mobile phone is your lifeline, connecting you to work and your social life. You regularly get caught-out answering your mobile phone in meetings or responding to SMS at the dinner table.
2. I see, I Do
You tend to follow the crowd and exhibit poor mobile manners because everyone else does – for instance, you’ll start checking emails during a work meeting because those around you are doing it too.
3. The Peacock
You’re constantly posting status updates, checking-in your friends and talking loudly on your mobile phone. Your behaviour is designed to make sure everyone around you knows you have a ‘fabulous’ life.
4. Stimulation Seeker
You can’t sit still and need to be in the know, so you pass the time – whether you’re on the bus or while crossing the road – browsing Facebook, downloading the latest apps or checking out your phone’s features.
Telstra’s tips for avoiding Phone-Pas offences
1. Your mobile phone shouldn’t be part of the table setting. A restaurant isn’t your bedroom, so don’t spend your night out with friends, calling or texting a “better” friend.
2. Shut app! No one should tweet what they had for lunch and yes, that includes your latest coffee order.
3. Hold that post. A picture tells a thousand words so always seek permission before taking someone’s photograph and remember the golden rule – always think before you post.
4. The person at the movies, wedding, funeral… Don't use the movies as a time to catch up with every friend you've ever had, for three solid hours. The rest of the paying audience don't want to hear it.
5. Be in the moment. It’s not OK to be in a face to face conversation with someone and answer your phone. Always ask, “Do you mind if I answer this?” when your phone rings in company – it’s not the end of the world if the call goes to MessageBank.